In recent years, marriage rates have dropped dramatically. Fewer people are choosing to marry, and many see marriage as optional, outdated, or even unnecessary. But as Christians, we must ask: Does marriage matter? Not just for individuals, but for society as a whole? The answer, according to both Scripture and common sense, is a resounding yes.

God designed marriage not only for personal joy and companionship but also for the flourishing of families, communities, and entire nations. When marriage declines, society suffers. Here are three key ways biblical marriage strengthens society.

1. Marriage Provides Stability for the Next Generation

One of the most critical ways marriage benefits society is by providing a stable foundation for children. God established marriage as the primary context for raising and nurturing children: “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward.” (Psalm 127:3)

God’s design for family—a father and mother raising children together—gives children the best chance to thrive. Studies repeatedly show that children raised by both biological parents in a loving, committed marriage tend to do better emotionally, academically, and socially. They are less likely to engage in crime, suffer from depression, or drop out of school. When marriage declines, more children grow up without this stability, and society bears the consequences.

2. Marriage Strengthens Communities

Strong marriages create strong communities. When couples commit to each other in lifelong faithfulness, they contribute to a culture of trust, responsibility, and service. The Bible teaches that marital love is meant to reflect Christ’s love for the Church—a love that is sacrificial and enduring: “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” (Ephesians 5:25)

This kind of self-giving love extends beyond the home. Married couples are more likely to be involved in church, local organizations, and charitable work. Marriage fosters a mindset of stability and commitment, which spills over into neighborhoods, workplaces, and churches. When marriage declines, social bonds weaken, and communities suffer from increased isolation, instability, and dysfunction.

3. Marriage Promotes Economic and Social Well-being

Marriage not only benefits individuals emotionally and spiritually but also contributes to economic stability. The Bible encourages wise stewardship and diligent work: “Go to the ant, O sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise.” (Proverbs 6:6)

Married couples, on average, build more wealth, make wiser financial decisions, and contribute more to society through work and charity. Marriage also reduces reliance on government assistance, as stable families provide mutual support. A decline in marriage leads to increased poverty, greater financial instability, and higher burdens on social services.

A Call to Reclaim Marriage

If marriage is a God-given gift for both individuals and society, then its decline should concern us all. As Christians, we must not only defend marriage but also model it well. This means honoring our marriages, supporting struggling couples, and teaching young people the beauty and purpose of marriage.

Marriage is not just a personal choice—it’s a societal cornerstone. When we embrace God’s design for marriage, both individuals and communities flourish. Let’s be a people who celebrate and strengthen marriage, for the glory of God and the good of society. “Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” (Mark 10:9)